Adult ADD: Is It You Or Me? More than Medications

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September 1, 2008
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September 4, 2008

Adult ADD/ADHD: Do You Believe? This Book is About Interpersonal Answers

Back in 1985 the Journal of the American Psychiatric Association published an article about a topic quite familiar with those of us practicing in the field… Adults can also suffer from ADD/ADHD Addadhdlost
problems lasting from childhood.

We Here At CorePsychBlog Know That Adult ADD is old news – but interestingly, some still don't believe in scientifically proven ADD/ADHD brain challenges.

From my office chair I am simply incredulous at the frequent folks who come into my office, either in my previous DC office, or in Va Beach [not a geographic disparity], who retain the old view that ADD is a schooling disorder, only seen in grade school, mainly in the second grade, and then only with kids who are dramatically hyperactive.

And now comes a new, and even more comprehensive adult ADD review: Gina Pera's new book Is It You, Me or Adult ADD? – about roller-coaster ADD relationships.

Gina discusses, with excellent examples, the denial and pain, the dynamics and meds, the
frustration and counterproductive patterns of relationships in
combination with adult ADD is, quite simply, a must read – indeed, will
be a classic. You can hook up with her blog here – then catch this roller coaster at her main site.

And thanks, Gina, for your discussion of the specific medications and the opportunity to share some CorePsych thoughts in your helpful medication overview. It's great to hear someone who is *not medically trained* take a reasonable, positive view of medications used correctly [Under "Treatments That Last"]. So many docs don't get what you got. 

Gina covers much of the geography of ADD from diagnosis to various treatments, and covers it well. – And Gina [bio here] provides a
very interesting journalistic perspective
, then explores – for both the
first time adult ADD reader and the expert – useful insights for
improved relationship action. This one is first on my adult ADD list,
and should be first on yours if you have any possibility of ADD
patterns locked into your relationship radar.

Well done, Gina!

3 Comments

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  2. Stuart,
    Excellent questions! Perhaps we can convince Gina to writer her next book on the workplace.

    Another excellent reference is this book by Kathleen Nadeau, a bright colleague with many good texts on ADD topics, this one on ADD in the Workplace: for your review-

    http://astore.amazon.com/cpbks-20/detail/0876308477/002-1055305-8449621

    The real issue is simple: ADD is not pandemic, it is a contextual problem, and just as any work related issue we have to deal with it in context… and the work objective. I’ve experienced ADD employees who self correct, and witnessed those who use it as an excuse for making up their own workplace rules.

    Tough decisions!
    cp

  3. Stuart Frazer says:

    I’ve recently been thinking about the impact ADHD has on another kind of relationship: the one between co-workers. Human resources departments often rely on Myers-Briggs to assess social dynamics in the workplace. As a manager with ADHD I suspect more is often going on than the Myers-Briggs can explain. How does ADHD influence the way I manage others? What pitfalls do I need to watch out for? How do you manage an employee you suspect may be undiagnosed ADHD? Is it the manager’s place to even consider this?